“Separation Anxiety” comes when entering the kindergarten
Now is the time when a group of babies are about to enter kindergarten for the first time. Faced with the upcoming “psychological weaning”, parents and children must experience a “separation Anxiety period”. So, what preparations should parents do before entering the kindergarten to help themselves and their children deal with the “separation anxiety” of entering the kindergarten?
As the name suggests, the anxiety state of the child’s first time going to kindergarten is the anxiety state. It is a kind of separation anxiety.
It is normal for the anxiety to enter the kindergarten. Even the most confident children will feel a little nervous when they go to kindergarten for the first time. They have to separate from their favorite parents. What kind of place is the kindergarten? I’m afraid to make new friends!
However, entering kindergarten is a very important step for children, and the anxiety about entering kindergarten can be overcome slowly.
What are the concerns about babies entering the park? ▼
▍Unwilling to leave her parents
At the entrance of the kindergarten, he hugged his parents’ thighs, refused to let go, watching him being sent to the kindergarten, and even cried and fussed with Cinema. He used all the tricks that he could use, saying “I don’t want to go to the kindergarten!”
▍No new things about BabaylanInterested
After being sent to kindergarten, the people of the Baby are not interested in anything: they are not interested in playing games, they are not interested in new children, and they are not interested in lunch. Babaylan
▍Specially quiet
Specially quiet, I was unwilling to speak Komiks, and no matter what questions the teacher asked, he did not respond.
▍The keywords are particularly sensitive when talking about mother, father, and home.
Often you stay in a corner in the kindergarten, but when you hear Cinema, the keywords “Dad”, “Mom” and “Home”, they are particularly sensitive, and they react very much, and they cry endlessly.
How do parents and babies overcome “separation anxiety”? ▼
▍Talk to the old and the children before school starts
Enter the park and take a look at the classroom, and try to have early communication with the school and teachers. When talking to your baby about going to school, you must also emphasize that going to kindergarten is a happy thing. You must not say things like “If you are disobedient, you will send you to kindergarten”. Who is not afraid of hearing such words!
The whole family mobilized, talk more and encouraged, and told the baby: “It is great to be able to go to kindergarten when you grow up, it is the pride of your parents!”
▍Relieve the baby’s anxiety through games
Use toys to simulate the situation of going to kindergartenKomiks, let the baby be a mother, treat the doll as a child, tell the baby to go to kindergartenBabaylan this short-termThe separation is safe, without questioning Cinema.
It is also OK to play hide-and-seek. This kind of game can help children experience “safe separation” and relieve the anxiety of separation from you.
▍In the transition period, give a photo
You can choose the most warm and loving photos of yours to print them into necklaces, stickers, etc., and take them to kindergarten for your baby so that they can slightly relieve the pain of longing.
▍Make enough sleep
Let the child go to bed 15 minutes earlier than usual to ensure that he has enough sleep and energy to face new things.
▍Take your child to the school first
It is difficult to avoid anxiety when facing a new environment. Getting in front of a new environment will help alleviate this anxiety.
Make a plan and take your baby to the Cinema Kindergarten. Tell the baby what trees are there next to the Cinema, what can you see through the classroom windows, what other older children may be playing in the playground, etc.
Every time the kindergarten starts its new school year, many parents of new students are worried. Some parents feel distressed when they see their children crying in the classroom. Some parents will wait outside the kindergarten door and look in secret through the gaps in the fence.
Cinema even more worried teachers.Babaylan is that not only should we comfort our children, but we should also shoulder the important task of comforting our parents. You should know that babies sometimes become anxious because of their parents’ over-examination. So moms and dads should be stronger!
Children’s admission is about to begin. I hope that every little baby will survive the anxiety period of separation with the help of his parents and teachers and grow up happily and healthily!
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